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In my work, I help people find passion in their careers. Typically my
clients are making a mid-career change after realizing they're not on
the right path.
At a time of year when new graduates are up to their eyeballs in
what-do-I-do-now, I have some advice for them to help ensure that they
never need someone like me.
What is it? "Don't worry about making the 'right' choice as you launch into your career - because you probably won't."
You can imagine that raises some eyebrows. Of course there's more to it
(read on for that). I just like to say that because it gets people's
attention.
The reality is, most recent students entering the work force simply
haven't had the real world experience to be able to accurately say,
"This is the career I want for the next twenty years." I was no
different. Thinking back on my days as a new graduate, I shake my head
at what I thought I wanted out of my career.
I see it in my clients all the time. I find that people don't start
coming to see me until their early thirties (and often older, of
course). I call the first ten years out of college the incubation
period.
Coming out of college they have this rose-colored, sexy view of what
they think they want to do (or what they "should" do), and it takes a
few years of real world work experience for them to really start to
clue into the fact that "somethin' ain't right here," and, more
importantly, "Something needs to change."
So, on to the rest of my advice...
It's really unlikely that your career is going to follow a straight
shot trajectory based on the step you take right now. So don't stress
about that step as defining your career, because it's almost guaranteed
that it won't.
Rather than trying to make the "right" choice right now to launch you
into a career for the next twenty or thirty years, look at the next
five years as a big R&D project. Spend the time to really get to
know what lights you up. Find out where you really feel energized.
Pick a direction that appeals to you, and then treat your life as a big
lab experiment. Along the way, keep asking yourself, "What do I love
about this? Why? What is it about that that's so fun? What drives me
nuts about this? Why? What is it about that that rubs me the wrong way?"
Spend the first years of your career really figuring out what makes you tick.
The fact is, success is going to come a lot more easily for you if you
are on fire about what you're doing. So spending the time to really
understand what that is can be one of the best career investments you
can make.
And investing in that kind of awareness (and committing to basing your
decisions on what you discover) will ensure that you never have to come
see somebody like me and say, "This path is SOOO wrong. I need to
change, but I don't know to what, or how."
You'll be too busy loving your life.
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Brought to you by Curt Rosengren, Passion Catalyst TM